“Chihulloli”
A word from the traditional Choctaw tribal language that means “I love you” when spoken sounds is easy to say; but for Raynie Tom it has become a way of life as she proudly strives to make things better for everyone she meets. “Whatever I do, I try to make sure that everyone is included and feels they are important,” explained Raynie, a junior at Wright City High School. “Together we can find success and happiness.”
A member of the Lady Jax softball, track and cross-country teams, Raynie is a true competitor on and off the sports fields evidenced by achieving a 4.0 grade point average to rank among the top of the academic results at Wright City. When she wears the number-3 softball jersey, Raynie strives to be a game changer while playing shortstop and catcher for the Lady Jax. Her competitive spirit helps Raynie lead the pace for the cross-country team that ranks among the top ten squads in Oklahoma as state competition approaches.
“Running gives me a sense of accomplishment. It strengthens my confidence that I can succeed no matter the circumstances I face, in sports and in life.” Proud of the Choctaw heritage, Raynie enjoys continuing the tradition of playing stickball. “Stickball is known for its aggressive nature,” said Raynie recalling the sport was used as a way of mediating social relations. “Whether we’re playing pickup games or competing in tournaments, it’s another way that enriches my love for the Choctaw history. This year’s youth league will be tackle and I’m really looking forward to that for sure.”
Recognized for her accomplishments in sports and in the classroom, Raynie Tom is often described by those who know her best for having a kind spirit, and that by being the example of giving her best everyday sets the standard for others to follow. “To me, it’s all about being someone who is trustworthy, a person that does the little things right when no one is looking. Trust is what’s most important in order to building relationships.” Enriched by the values of family, faith and culture, Raynie is proud to have opportunities to keep the Choctaw Way alive now and in the future as a member of the Student Council and Wisdom Club at school as well as the Youth Advisory Board through the Choctaw Nation.
“I’m continuing to learn the Choctaw native language in order to keep our heritage alive,” Raynie explained. “I’m big on helping others in our community to meet their needs any way I can.” The desire for everyone to succeed is a trait that Raynie has learned by example from the influence of family. “My dad, Joey is my hero. He’s endured so many challenges and always finds a way to make things better for everyone,” Raynie said with a voice of passion and love. “My mom’s name is Hope, she’s encouraged me to work hard and taught me the importance of taking care of my grades.”
Proud to be Choctaw, Raynie plans to play college softball while chasing her dreams to become a pharmacist or physical therapist and giving back to those who have enriched her path to success. “I love to represent our people and I appreciate the many sacrifices that were made in order for me to enjoy life. Now and in the future, I hope that I can maintain the culture and make my ancestors proud.”
